Planning with Your Sibling to Care for Elderly Parents

Instead of coming up with a strategy for caregiving arrangements right after an emergency room visit or life-threatening event, it is good for families to meet early during a time when everyone is relaxed and rational. By meeting early, families can make arrangements when they are clear-minded and collected.

Another effective step in planning for caregiving is matching the parents’ wishes and needs with the capabilities of the siblings. For example, many elderly parents need help in areas like transportation, managing finances, and healthcare. Depending on the situation, one sibling might be able to assist with transporting the parents while another may be greater help in paying bills.

Lastly, it is important for siblings to remember that asking for outside help is sometimes necessary. If you and your siblings are still struggling to meet the needs of your parents, it is good to contact volunteer, hospital, and senior care programs that can provide their abilities and time.